Trying to convince your friends to join the animal crossing fandom like
Anxiety & Helping Someone Cope.
I didn’t want to make it overwhelming or too long remember, so I kept it to the main points that benefit me greatly when I’m experiencing an attack.
40 million of Americans alone suffer with anxiety; it’s a horrid feeling when you know someone just wants to help you but you cannot even construct a simple sentence at the time, so please share this in hope that it benefits even just 1 person. Muchos love.
Seriously though, if you don’t think asexual representation is important, you need to get educated, because it is really hard to live in a sex-centric culture and not be interested in sex.
I have seen so many posts about finding out about asexuality after joining tumblr and you know what word almost all over them have in common? Broken.
And that’s fucked up.
Our team does not “assume” that you are homophobic because you are Christian. You specifically state that you believe gay people are going to hell and are committing a sin, and that Christians who support gay people are “not really Christians.”
You. Not your religion. You conveniently forget your own words.
Your religion does not preach this bigotry and intolerance. You do that yourself.
How about ya read The Bible and be silent. My words are to the sin, not the person. Hate the sin, not the sinner. If one supports the sin then yes, they to are just as bad as that sin they support and so should repent. My religion teaches truth, people’s mind are the one’s whom twist the words. Read scripture by scripture. Jesus had befriended of sorts a homosexual man, teaching him the wrong in that sin, where a man and woman can only form that special bond to become one. Jesus did not hate on the man, He taught the man. Before you even go into what the Old Testament says; Jesus came to fulfill it, not re-write it. He died to make it possible for us to repent and have the chance of eternal life. If this is not what you believe then yes, you are a false Christian.
So let us go over this again, hakamorra.
You state above that Christians who support gay people are not “real” Christians.
So the only actual Christians that exist are all homophobic.
Who is really creating the assumption that you are homophobic just because you are Christian? By the definition you alone have provided us, you are homophobic because you are a “real” Christian.
You and your shiwakami account should be warned to everyone on account of extreme homophobia.
So this person is really fucking gross, not just because of her homophobia, racism, and blatant disregard of the wishes of others regarding roleplaying.
I’m not kidding, avoid her.
conclusion: portal is a fucking great game and if you haven’t played it then you are certainly not living your life to the fullest
Hi ! I first wanted to ask you a question about the etymology of the term “autochorissexualism”, with which I identify, for it’s a pretty recent word (I guess) and, as far as I know, it doesn’t even exist in my native language (French). So I just had a look on google as to not bother you with a question if I could find the answer easily by myself, but now I’m really upset by what I found.
In fact, on another asexual blog, a mod qualifies autochorissexualism as a paraphilia and says that it’s not a sexual orientation, thus it’s not a part of the ace spectrum.
It bothers me because of the term paraphilia, as I feel as they’re saying I’m not normal (maybe I’m taking it the wrong way ? Or is not involving myself in my fantasies “less normal” than involving myself ?) On the other hand, I’m a 100% sure that I never experience sexual attraction to people irl, even in a relationship, even in love (I know what I’m talking about, I’m an adult, I had relationships and I had sex).
Could you please tell me I’m not going crazy by getting upset by this article ? What do you think about autochorissexualism ? Does it have its place on the asexuality spectrum ?
I had another question before, but now I’m feeling so insecure about people thinking I’m not normal that I really can’t ask anything more.
Anyway, sorry for the long ask, and thank you so much for your blog, it’s really helpful !
So, let’s talk about autochorissexualism! For anyone not in the loop, here’s the definition from anagnori:
- Autochorissexualism - A disconnection between oneself and a sexual target/object of arousal; may involve sexual fantasies, or arousal in response to erotica or pornography, but lacking any desire to be a participant in the sexual activities therein. Commonly found in asexual people; an analogous feeling may occur in aromantic people for romantic fantasies. Coined by Anthony Bogaert.
So, autochorissexualism is not a sexuality. Many asexuals do experience this, because many of us find certain things arousing, but have no desire to participate in those things.
For those not sure that what paraphilias are, here’s a video from Dr. Lindsey Doe all about them and, in short, a definition: an atypical source of sexual arousal or gratification. The video makes a lot of sense, go watch it.
Paraphilias are normal. Many people have them, there’s nothing inherently wrong about having a paraphilia. While some paraphilias definitely cross the line (the line being “does this paraphilia harm other people or involve lack of consent?”), many others are totally harmless. Fetishes are one type of paraphilia, as is BDSM.
Is autochorissexualism a paraphilia? Quite possibly. I’m not a sexologist, so I don’t feel entirely qualified to pass that judgement. I mean, I guess if the point of sexual fantasies is that you want to participate in them, then I guess not wanting to do so would be atypical and make autochorissexualism a paraphilia. But at the same time, not wanting to participate in porn, despite finding it arousing, seems like a fairly common response. So I don’t know.
I guess my point is - I understand your concern. Autochorissexualism is something that some asexuals experience, but it is not its own identity. It was not meant as an identity, as far as know. It is a reaction/behavior. It is definitely compatible. Paraphilias are totally normal and you should not feel abnormal or broken or anything for having one! Many people have paraphilias. If autochorissexualism is a paraphilia, then that’s cool. If not, also cool.
ALMOST. JUST A LITTLE MORE.
we don’t have an Autumn like this in Australia. It’s hard to imagine how much a person can miss a season. so much beauty I’m missing out on…
when you really hate the fuck out of someone but you cant say shit because everyone else loves them and you know deep down in your cold dead heart that they’re a terrible person
"I love Dean"
Who Dean? Supernatural Dean? Gilmore Girls Dean?
No Iron Giant Dean